Raising Pets While Growing Up

Nugget, an Australian shepherd, was welcomed into the Arbo family two years ago. While this breed is often recognized for its high energy levels and need for daily physical and mental engagement, Nugget has a knack for relaxing at home when the day winds down.

Jen Arbo, mother of nine-year-old Kale, who shares her home with a cat and four chickens, expresses that there exists a delightful, easygoing bond between her son and Nugget. “Nugget has truly become an integral part of how Kale perceives our family,” she remarks.

The experience of pet ownership has taught Kale valuable lessons—from the responsibilities of caring for a pet to navigating the emotions tied to losing their previous dog. Overall, growing up with pets can yield numerous benefits for children and enhance family dynamics.

Pets as Family Members

Dr. Christina Brown, a social-personality scientist at Arcadia University, has extensively studied the positive impacts of pets on human wellbeing.

As per Dr. Brown, pets offer more than just companionship; they can provide social support comparable to that of close friends, siblings, or spouses. Owners often regard pets as beloved family members. Notably, those who form a strong emotional connection with their pets experience the utmost benefits of pet ownership.

“Psychological findings suggest that diverse social support enhances well-being. Pets contribute significantly to this,” explains Brown. “In times of loneliness or rejection, even contemplating our pets can uplift our spirits.”

Importantly, pets enhance household dynamics without detracting from human relationships. Dr. Brown emphasizes, “The remarkable thing is that pets enrich our lives without imposing a burden on our existing relationships, serving as additional sources of support that foster overall wellbeing.”

Fostering Healthy Childhood Development

Having pets during childhood can play a pivotal role in development. Research demonstrates that children raised with pets may exhibit improved impulse control and fewer signs of stress, anxiety, or depression, and they might even be less prone to allergies.

Dr. Brown indicates that when children assume responsibilities toward their pets, it not only helps the animals but also benefits the children significantly. Caring for a pet can teach essential life skills.

Moreover, the link between physical and mental health is evident; growing up with pets encourages outdoor activity. “Research consistently supports the idea that physical activity is crucial for mental health,” states Brown, highlighting the beneficial role of dog walking.

Cultivating Stronger Social Connections

Nugget is not the first pet the Arbo family has had. A few years back, Kale experienced the loss of their elderly Shiba Inu, Mooki, who faced severe health challenges. Jen and her husband felt it important for Kale to be part of the decision-making process surrounding Mooki’s euthanasia, allowing him to learn about this difficult aspect of pet care.

Adjusting to Nugget, a dog requiring more attention and exercise, was a significant transition for Kale. “Realizing that Nugget had different needs was a major shift,” notes Jen. Now, it’s common for Kale to engage Nugget in conversations about video games or share amusing stories about the antics of their cat, and Nugget enjoys being part of that interaction. “Nugget isn’t going to silence him,” Jen adds.

Conversing with pets is beneficial, as Dr. Brown explains, because it acknowledges the pet’s unique personality and individuality. “We may feel silly talking to our pets, but that human-animal bond is what enriches our lives,” she concludes.

The Value of Responsible Pet Care

Dr. Brown promotes the idea of responsible pet ownership, emphasizing, “While we often talk about the benefits pets provide, it’s critical to also recognize the obligations we have toward them.”

“Pets bring joy into our lives, but we must reciprocate that by providing care,” Dr. Brown advises. This means recognizing the commitments and responsibilities that come with pet ownership, as proper care and training are essential.